I am confused by what to think of my dad...

Hi so my dad and I argue a lot and I'm not in an ideal life situation realizing early in life that 90 percent of people are npcs with no or low level consciousness and have given up on a lot of people and only talk to people that are like me (autistic and very cognitively aware). I constantly clash with my dad and his gf in a non normal teenage relationship way and I have feelings no one should have at my age and some people like @glesas know that well and I wanted to copy paste a message I got from my dad recently after a fight: "If you ever lie again about something like this.... I'm really giving up. No more discussion. No next chance". It doesn't even hurt me I just get angry knowing that I can't change much about my current life situation and I talked to another person today who has experienced 60 percent of their life and is also autistic and agrees with most of my views such as seeing most Neurotypicals as NPC's or that they act more like machines with routines than people. He told me that with no sugarcoating "life doesn't get much easier for you and you will only make it better by adapting". I believe that makes sense because almost every person that is "one of us" or like me and older than me and has experienced similar things to me has told me things like that and they make a lot of sense and they have accurately predicted things I've told them about and how they will probably play out and well a few Months later exactly what they said or something very similar happened. I also wanna note that I don't hate people or anything but just don't..... I don't know what to write from here I think I've explained this situation to myself for now. I will definitely have more things to add later the more I think about this. Hope I can get some good advice from other autistic and highly cognitive people because normal people don't really....relate as much in my opinion and their replies feel very surface level not judging their character, but it's just like a comment from someone who tries to understand a situation they haven't and will never experience.