Hey this is a more sad or confused post so yeah

Hello so i realized that i have a lot of people around me but never hangout with them or do anything with them. I havent dated anyone in 11 months, but im friends with a lot of girls around 5 or 6 who are 2 to 3 years older than me and my best friend whos a girl same age as me likes me (platonically) but we never do anything together and shes always with her other friends who are all girls. Im a guy and the only guy she considers a friend (her words) but i havent done anything with her in a few months and we dont talk as much recently. basically i have a lot of people around me but am lonely. maybe my ASD1/autism contributes to that or that im very different from others my age