loop earplugs...had them for 2 hours fuck my dad seriously

so my dad got me the only ever accommodation for my audhd I ever got in my life being the loop engage 2 which as awesome and completely surprising from him and then ofcourse I was planning to wear them in school at all times to...well to stop sensory overload and make life manageable and then my dad told me that he will take them away forever if I wear them outside of the classroom specifically which I disagreed with so he took them forever and said that if I cant manage without then I need to go to special school and he means it btw. which is like huh?? im sorry what the fuck?! I don't need to go to special school of all things cuz I need a hearing accommodation because the world is so fucking louuud. like bitch im sorry my ears hear all sounds in mono at 200 percent volume. and also he said that I am making myself believe that I cant handle loud sounds and I don't think he understands that I feel like I am in fight or flight mode everytime someone drops a backpack or puts a plate down or closes a metal door or that I have a minor meltdown when 2 or more loud ish repetitive sounds play at the same time. by play I mean like happen mb my brain is fried at the moment. so yeah only help I ever got gone. no earplugs, no diagnosis, no therapy, no counselling, no meds. fuck him seriously. he also said that me wearing all the time would show others that I am antisocial and that I don't want to talk and will make others think im rude and that it will completely derail all social norms when I thought no one would really notice its 2 small see-through fucking looped earplugs. is the last thing he said true?? pls answer if u know. alright bye